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TAROT’S TEN OF CUPS – THE JOY OF LOVE AND FAMILY

September 12, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

Encased in a rainbow arching over a scene of a happy family, are 10 cups. Below are a man and a woman, standing in a close embrace, each with an arm upraised as though embracing the blessings and bounty that they have received in life. Near them, two children dance hand in hand, and across a stream or river, surrounded green grassy hills, stands a sweet little home. — The Ten of Cups

The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other’s life
Richard Bach

Overview and common meanings of The Ten of Cups

The Ten of Cups has traditionally been known as the “One big happy family” card. One of the most fortuitous cards of the minor arcana, it is about all the benefits of love and family, however family looks to you.

Common Meanings

Communication in all aspects of life becomes clearer, stronger, and easier. Follow your heart and tap into your intuition. Overcoming and conquering obstacles to find that connectedness to others. The best rewards in life truly are the simple things. Take the time to really enjoy the bounty of life that has appeared after all your hard work.

In a work or financial reading – the Ten of Cups indicates peace and accord in all business alliances. There is more collaboration and cooperation, rather than competition. Something you have been working on will finally bear fruit, and there is an indication of well-deserved and earned financial prosperity

In a relationship/love reading, there is indication of accord, and positive emotions. Relationships built on trust and support become stronger on both counts. Can indicate a forthcoming wedding, union, or engagement. This is a card that often shows up when two people believe and feel that they are fated, soulmates. If you are seeking a new relationship, the presence of the Ten of Cups can indicate a new and joy-filled relationship.

The Many Faces of the Ten of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal of the Ten of Cups is similar to the meaning of the upright card, and is still mostly positive, but can add an element of miscommunication and stress. It can also indicate disharmony/disagreements, delays, unrealistic expectations, lack of self-worth regarding accepting and being loved. It is an opportunity to look at how you feel about yourself regarding love. Can indicate misalignment of personal values.

Are you being true to yourself? Don’t let false sense of how it should look block you from seeing how wonderful it actually is. The true gifts in life are not in power and money, but in the people who love us and the joy that connection brings.

Description

Encased in a rainbow arching over a scene of a happy family, are 10 cups. Below are a man and a woman, standing in a close embrace, each with an arm upraised as though embracing the blessings and bounty that they have received in life. Near them, two children dance hand in hand, and across a stream or river, surrounded green grassy hills, stands a sweet little home.

Themes of The Ten of Cups

Community
Domestic Bliss
Family
Joy
Love
Open heart
Security
Soulmates
Relationship harmony
Wholeness

The Number 10

An ending and a beginning: A life phase has ended and a new one has begun. Ten is all about achievement and excellence, which makes for a whole and satisfying life.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Couple/family – love, completeness, everything
Grassy hills surrounding home – fertility
River/stream – flow of emotion
Rainbow – the promise of the end of challenging times; reaping the rewards (proverbial pot of gold)
Home – steadiness and safety

Herbs for The Ten of Cups

Olive – Loyalty, marriage, harmony, wealth.
Orange Peel – love, insight, fortune, money, house & business negotiations.
Savory – Sensuality, sexuality, and passion
Sweet Pea – Bliss, love, harmony, thankfulness, and loyalty
Wintergreen – good fortune and luck; purification.

Questions that the Ten of Cups asks us

How would it look for you to take the time to appreciate and savor the rewards of the work you have done in creating a life of joy and family, and who are those people who you consider your family?
Are you embracing the blessings in your life, in love, family, and abundance?

That is the Ten of Cups – an opportunity to embrace and welcome the wholeness of love and family (even those that are not related by blood to you). Wishing you a week of taking those breaths and enjoying the special moments. As always, please reach out with questions, comments, or to schedule a reading. Thank you for reading, and please join me next week for the first court card – the Page of Cups!

TAROT’S NINE OF CUPS: WHY GRATITUDE IS IMPORTANT

August 30, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Nine of Cups
Sitting on a wooden bench is a man wearing a red turban and hose, with long white robes. His arms are crossed, and he is smiling contentedly. Arranged behind him on a semi-circular platform draped in blue cloth, are 9 cups, which appear to be trophies or symbols of life’s successes and bounty. — The Nine of Cups

Overview and common meanings of The Nine of Cups

The presence of the Nine of Cups is a sign that the things you have been working for or dreaming about, are getting closer to manifestation. Along with this, always comes the warning to continue to remain focused on what you are working towards, whether it be a better job, a relationship, more money, or better spiritual fulfillment. You are getting closer but keep your eyes on the prize.

Some other names in varying decks are gratitude, fulfillment, joy, and the wish card.

If you believe it will work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you believe it won’t, you’ll see obstacles.
Wayne Dyer

Common Meanings

The Nine of Cups was traditionally known as the wish card. You would make a wish at the beginning of a reading and if this card showed up, it was a sign that your wish would come true.

When the Nine of Cups shows up in a career and finance-based reading, it is likely that you are seeing the growth of projects you have been nurturing. If you have been seeking a new job, it is a sign that you may finally find that perfect fit. Financially, things are looking up and you could see a great uptick in your financial abundance. As always, gratitude is key.

In an established relationship, the Nine of Cups is a sign that your relationship will continue to grow and deepen. If you have been struggling in an existing relationship, the Nine of Cups reminds you to remember and be grateful for all of the positive qualities of your partner. If you are seeking love, the Nine of Cups can be a sign that you are going to meet some great people. The key is to just be yourself and enjoy yourself.

The Many Faces of the Nine of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal – of the Nine of Cups can indicate ego interfering with forward momentum in the form of self-absorption and emotional detachment. It is a good time to take stock of what you truly want in life and make sure that it is in alignment with your values and truly serves your highest good. There is also the aspect of frustration over postponed fulfillment, unfulfilled yearnings, greed preventing you from progressing, lacking appreciation for the simple joys in life, self-righteousness. The message is clear: quiet your mind, pay attention to your inner wisdom, and go from there.

Description

Sitting on a wooden bench is a man wearing a red turban and hose, with long white robes. His arms are crossed, and he is smiling contentedly. Arranged behind him on a semi-circular platform draped in blue cloth, are 9 cups, which appear to be trophies or symbols of life’s successes and bounty.

Themes of The Nine of Cups

Abundance
Choosing Bliss
Fun
Generosity
Happiness
Harmony
Manifesting dreams
Material Comfort
Plenty
Prosperity
Satisfaction
Thankfulness
Wishes coming true

The Number 9

Faith, inner-strength, accountability, insight, learning how and when to say “No.” Trio of mind, body, and soul, and the perfect balance of this triumvirate.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Cups arranged in a semi-circle, almost touching – intimacy and connection with others; emotional fulfillment gained from the realization of deepest desires
Red turban & hose – vigor and love of life
Wooden bench – comfortable, but not too comfortable.

Herbs for The Nine of Cups

Alfalfa – luck, prosperity, overall good fortune
Allspice – Money, luck, healing, acquiring wealth. Provides added resolve and momentum
Almond – Knowledge, money, productivity, and success.
Blue violet – Love, insight, good luck
Chickweed – Fertility and love. Use to invite a new lover or sustain your present relationship

Questions that the Nine of Cups asks us

Are you starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel on a dream you have long held, and if so, what do you need to do to push it over the edge to reality?
Have you taken the time to check in with yourself on a dream, to make sure that it is in alignment with your highest good?

That is the Nine of Cups. Wishing you a week in which you see those long-held aspirations begin to come into focus. As always, please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading. Thank you for reading and please join me next week for the Ten of Cups!

TAROT’S EIGHT OF CUPS: POWERFUL KNOWLEDGE OF WHEN TO WALK AWAY

August 23, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Eight of Cups
A figure wearing a red cloak and boots, and carrying a staff, walks up a rocky path, away from the edge of a river. On the opposite side of the river, in the foreground of the card are eight cups, positioned in such a manner that it seems that one is missing. In the distance are rocky outcroppings rising out of a river or waterway. It is night; there is a blue sky and a sun within a moon overlooking the scene — The Eight of Cups

Knowing when to walk away, is wisdom. Being able to is courage. Walking away with grace, and your head held high, is dignity.
Ritu Ghatourey

Overview and common meanings of the eight of cups

The Eight of Cups can indicate a sense of restiveness, and like something is missing. Everything appears great on the outside, but your intuition is bothering you. The Eight of Cups traditionally indicates leaving a situation, place, or relationship that no longer fulfills you. This is usually a decision made after much careful consideration, and when done, you may find that you had already left the situation emotionally and that there is less strife and drama about the leave-taking than you originally feared. Some Other names for the Eight of Cups in varying decks are Quest, renewal, stagnation, indolence.

Common Meanings

In a career or financial reading, the Eight of Cups shows up at a time when you are feeling ready to leave a job that is no longer fulfilling your needs. Perhaps it is one you have outgrown, and it is time for you to stretch your wings and reach for something more. Maybe it is time to liquidate that struggling business or those investments that aren’t performing well.

In a relationship or love reading, the Eight of Cups can indicate that it is a good time to take a break from seeking a relationship while you spend some time determining what you really want. If you are in a long-term relationship, sometimes the Eight of Cups can show up at a time when you are considering leaving the relationship and making a change. It’s always important to check in with yourself and determine what it is that you truly want and need.

The Many Faces of The Eight of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal – of the Eight of Cups can indicate a fear of abandonment, or an actual abandonment. Often, there is an aspect of clinging to a situation past the time when it is healthy to do so. There is the aspect of giving the situation one more try. You could be staying because it is the logical thing to do, or out of some sense of duty or obligation, but in this instance, it is more important to tap into your intuition and heed your inner guidance. Just because things look perfect on the outside, it doesn’t mean that it is perfect for you.

Description

A figure wearing a red cloak and boots, and carrying a staff, walks up a rocky path, away from the edge of a river. On the opposite side of the river, in the foreground of the card are eight cups, positioned in such a manner that it seems that one is missing. In the distance are rocky outcroppings rising out of a river or waterway. It is night; there is a blue sky and a sun within a moon overlooking the scene.

Themes of The Eight of Cups

Abandonment
Avoidance
Boredom
Departure
Disappointment Letting go
Escapism
Fear
Feeling stuck
Releasing old patterns or beliefs that no longer fit who you are
Walking away
Regretting choices made
Restlessness
Soul searching
Spiritual journey

The Number 8

Fulfillment, the combination of two fours which represent stability. Stability and renewal, inner strength and wisdom and healthy balanced ego. When combined with Cups, it can indicate boredom and dissatisfaction.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Sun – the mind
Moon – Insight and Desire
Staff – inner guidance
Red cloak – competence to manifest objective
Rocky outcropping or mountain – trials and new experiences

Herbs for The Eight of Cups

Black Cohosh – strength and lucidity when leaving harmful situation; particularly useful when you have adopted negativity directed towards you.
Kava – eases tension, calms the mind, and supports healthy stress response
Mimosa – Sadness, loss, heartache, grief. Can help when mourning the things you are letting go from your life.
Pine – rebirth, wisdom; useful when walking away and “rebirthing” into a new reality
St John’s Wort – used for depression and anxiety; can help bring the light back to your life.

Questions that the Eight of Cups asks us

While it may appear that you have everything you want in life, do you truly have everything that you need?
Is this one of those times in your life that you need to walk away from something, and towards something else, no matter what others around you may think of your decisions?

That is the Eight of Cups. Wishing you a week in of discernment on whether it is time to walk away from a situation that you have outgrown. Thank you for reading and please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading.

Join me next week for the Nine of Cups!

TAROT’S SEVEN OF CUPS: FOCUS ON INNER WISDOM

August 16, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Seven of Cups: A figure that is shadowed stands in the foreground, back to us, facing a cloud on which 7 cups float. They are all filled with something different. One has a woman’s head floating above, one is shrouded, hands lifted as in entreaty, and red light emanating from it, one contains a snake, one a dragon with a forked tongue, one a laurel wreath, one overflows with jewels, and one contains a tower. If you look closer at the cup containing the laurel wreath, there appears to be a skull etched in its side. One gets the sense in looking at the card, that the figure is facing these cups filled with many choices, like we face the many paths that life can take us on. — The Seven of Cups

Overview and Common Meanings of The Seven of Cups

When the Seven of Cups shows up, there are many choices in front of you, and it could be hard to pick because they all seem great. The important thing is seeing past the shiny illusions of what you think you want and taking the time to really make the choices that are right for you.

Alternate names in varying decks for the Seven of Cups are choice, ambition, excess, and vision quest.

Transformation occurs when there has been a learning lesson and you choose to create a better choice.
Andrea Reibmayr

Common Meanings

Maybe you have been partying a lot to avoid taking the steps towards what you want in life. This is a great time to stop wasting your time dreaming about what you want and to get off your metaphorical ass and start working towards it. Sometimes this manifests as the need to move forward without seeing the whole picture; the leap of faith and trusting that it is all going to work out that is required in such cases.

In a work related reading the Seven of Cups can indicate that you have lots of options coming your way, either within the job you now work, or offers for something new. Again, really listen to your inner wisdom in this and remember that if an offer seems to good to be true, it likely is. Regarding finances, it is a reminder that now is not the best time to make reckless purchases or investments.

If you are asking about love and relationships, if you are not currently in a relationship, it could be a sign that you have many options to choose from. The warning here to look past the shiny and really make sure that you make the choice that will be the best long term fit for you. If you are in an established relationship, the Seven of Cups can show up to highlight options, which may not involve your current relationship. If you are presented with the option of an affair, really take the time to weigh whether the short-term thrill is worth the potential long-term consequences.

The Many Faces of The Seven of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal – of the Seven of Cups can indicate extreme emotions or becoming embroiled in drama. It can also serve as a warning to be careful of idealizing relationships or people and can indicate that you are being deceived by appearances. Other meanings of the shadow side are fear of making the wrong choices, frustration at uncertainty, and overwhelm.

Description of the Seven of Cups

float. They are all filled with something different. One has a woman’s head floating above, one is shrouded, hands lifted as in entreaty, and red light emanating from it, one contains a snake, one a dragon with a forked tongue, one a laurel wreath, one overflows with jewels, and one contains a tower. If you look closer at the cup containing the laurel wreath, there appears to be a skull etched in its side. One gets the sense in looking at the card, that the figure is facing these cups filled with many choices, like we face many paths in life.

Themes of The Seven of Cups

Choices
Confusion
Fantasies
Illusion
Imagination
New opportunities
Options
Sentiment
Wishful thinking

The Number 7

Seven is an important number. It is the number of alliance, days of the week, days of creation of the universe. The number seven is all about learning and understanding at a deeper, more intellectual level. Seven presents’ options and the ability to combine heaven and earth for creating the ideal.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Contents of the 7 cups:
– Male figure – possibly archangel Michael suggesting temperance
– Shrouded figure – what is hidden, ascending consciousness, things yet to be revealed
– Snake – knowledge and sycophancy
– Tower – stronghold, security
– Laurel wreath – sign of victory, cup has the likeness of a skull, so is the victory false?
– Jewels – wealth, fame, reputation
– Dragon with forked tongue – are we hearing lies or the truth?

Herbs for The Seven of Cups

Elderberry – astral travel, enhances intuition
Echinacea – psychic insight
Mugwort – introspection and intuition, gateway to inner-realms—unveiling who you are and what you need to understand. Promotes lucid dreaming.
Peony – for becoming receptive, opening to your spiritual gifts and intuition
Sassafrass – foundation, thoughtful selections

Questions that the Seven of Cups asks us

Have you made some choices that haven’t turned out to be as good for you as they initially seemed, and if so, how can you course-correct and come back into true alignment with your spiritual self?
Are you having a hard time choosing something, because so many of the options seem great, and have you really checked in with yourself on which is right for you?

That is the Seven of Cups. Wishing you a week in which you take whatever time you need to make sure your decisions are the right ones for you, no matter how fun and exciting the other stuff seems at first glance. As always, please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading. Thank you for reading and please join me next week for the Eight of Cups!

TAROT’S SIX OF CUPS: BEAUTIFUL PAST REVISITED

August 9, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Six of Cups
At the foot of a stone path in a garden leading to a fortress, a child wearing a red hood offers a cup brimming with flowers to a smaller child dressed like a grownup. At their feet are four more cups also filled with flowers, and a sixth cup perches on a pedestal at the base of the path. On the face of the pedestal is a shield with an X inside. In the background we see a figure walking back up the stone path – that of a guard or a watchman perhaps - carrying a spear. — Six of Cups

Time and again we reconnect. Its like the universe nudges us to give it one more chance.
Nikki Rowe

Overview and common meanings of The Six of Cups

When the Six of Cups shows up, it is an indication of memories and ties to old friends or lovers being renewed. This is a time of nostalgia of a happy childhood and the “good old days.” This is a great invitation to get in touch with your inner child and embrace a sense of the wonder, discovery, and playfulness that children bring to the world. Alternative names in varying decks are Six of Shells, sentiment, joy, pleasure, and contentment.

Common Meanings

Six of Cups tells us that sometimes, by revisiting your past, you can gain perspective on your path going forward. Other times the card can indicate the children that are around you.

In a career related reading, Six of Cups can indicate that you will return to an old job that you once loved, or it could just be a sign of increased harmony and cooperation in your workplace. If you are curious about finances, Six of Cups can be a sign of a surprise financial gift or an inheritance. In love, the Six of Cups can be a sign of reuniting with an old lover. If you have recently ended a relationship, the Six of Cups serves as a gentle reminder to shift your focus from the way a relationship once and see what it evolved (or rather devolved) into.

The Many Faces of The Six of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal – of the Six of Cups can indicate being stuck in the past. Sometimes this being stuck in the past is a coping mechanism to avoid being present and moving forward in life. Other possible shadow indications are regret, the need for forgiveness of self and/or others. It also serves as a reminder that no person is an island, and there is a need to let walls down and let people in. Sometimes the shadow side of the Six of Cups is a reminder to not take yourself so seriously and remember to bring playfulness to your life.

Description

At the foot of a stone path in a garden leading to a fortress, a child wearing a red hood offers a cup brimming with flowers to a smaller child dressed like a grownup. At their feet are four more cups also filled with flowers, and a sixth cup perches on a pedestal at the base of the path. On the face of the pedestal is a shield with an X inside. In the background we see a figure walking back up the stone path – that of a guard or a watchman perhaps – carrying a spear.

Themes of The Six of Cups

Allegiance
Bonds of friendship, love, history
Contentment
Harmony
Love
Nostalgia
Past and Present
Playfulness
Reconciliation
Reuniting with old friends
Teamwork
Themes of your life
Youth

The Number 6

The embodiment of the heart and love. Emotional relationships, compassion, empathy, and support.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Child with red hood – intended as a reminder of childhood and the past
Child dressed as an adult – a nod to fairy-tales
Flowers – spiritual blossoming and love
Watchman and Fortress – protection and safety

Herbs for The Six of Cups

Calendula – uplifting moods, restoring well-being, promotes relaxation
Damiana – enables us to be more open, and connected within ourselves and with others
Heliotrope – Cheerfulness, gaiety, prosperity, and protection
Lavender – love, devotion, purity – the innocent state of the soul
Sweet Pea – Bliss, love, harmony, thankfulness, and loyalty

Questions that the Six of Cups asks us

How can you embrace the enthusiasm of a child in your everyday life, and what would that bring to your present state of adulthood?
What lessons from your past are showing up for you to learn again?

That is the Six of Cups. Wishing you a week of happy reunions and the lightheartedness of your childhood. Please reach out with questions, comments, or to schedule a reading. Thank you for reading and please join me next week for The Seven of Cups!

TAROT’S FIVE OF CUPS: SHIFTING PERSPECTIVE FROM DISAPPOINTMENT TO BLESSINGS

July 26, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Five of Cups Tarot Card.
Standing alone, shrouded in a dark cloakn, stands a figure. At his feet are 5 cups: three in front of him, which have spilled, their contents puddling on the ground beneath them, and two behind him, fully upright, and presumably still full. While the cups before him are spilled, behind him are two full ones…he has only to turn and shift perspective to see that he still has plenty. In front of him we see a river, and on a bluff on the other side of the river a lone fortress or dwelling. There is a bridge with two arches spanning the river a short distance to the right of the figure. — The Five of Cups

Disenchantment, whether it is a minor disappointment or a major shock, is the signal that things are moving into transition in our lives.
William Throsby Bridges

Overview and common meaning of The Five of Cups

The Five of Cups often shows up along with the realization that things are not as you thought they were, and you find yourself disillusioned. It is a great reminder that it is time to count your blessings, get over it and move on. Removing the blinders of illusion is not always a bad thing. Build a bridge into a brighter future that you want to see. It is always a great opportunity to take some quiet time to determine what the lessons were in the situation and how you can shift that moving forward. Don’t let the seeming bad things in life distract you from all the good that remains.

Some alternative names in varying decks are Hope, Re-adjustment, Warrior-Woman.

Common Meanings

In a work-related reading, you may be feeling deflated, or that you have let yourself or others down. It is time to glean what lesson you can from the situation, realize this is temporary, and move on. If you are seeking work and are not having luck, take heart, the right thing will appear for you.

In a love related reading, if you are seeking love, you may find yourself temporarily disappointed as something that seemed full of promise is not quite what you had originally thought or hoped. It is also a good opportunity to do a bit of self-analysis and ask yourself if you are expecting too much too soon. In an established relationship the Five of Cups can sometimes indicate that you are nearing a point where you choose to go separate ways, at least temporarily. It can also serve as a metaphorical separation; that of letting go of the illusions of what you thought something was so that you may clearer see what it actually is.

The Many Faces of The Five of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal – of the five of cups can indicate being stuck in old trauma and patterns, becoming cynical and jaded. It can also indicate that you have done the work, forgiven yourself and others, have moved past this darkest time, and things are starting to turn around for you. It could be a sign that you are ready to reconnect with old friends and loved ones after a period of isolation.

Description of the Five of Cups

Standing alone, shrouded in a dark cloak with shoulders hunched in seeming dejection, stands a figure. At his feet are 5 cups: three in front of him, which have spilled, their contents puddling on the ground beneath them, and two behind him, fully upright, and presumably still full. While the cups before him are spilled, behind him are two full ones…he has only to turn and shift perspective to see that he still has plenty. In front of him we see a river, and on a bluff on the other side of the river a lone fortress or dwelling. There is a bridge with two arches spanning the river a short distance to the right of the figure.

Themes of The Five of Cups

Disenchantment
Duplicity
Forgiveness
Frustration
Grieving
Resentment

The Number 5

The number 5 is a holy number in many of earths religions: – in Christianity, the 5 holy wounds of Christ; Hinduism – The five elements; Islam – the Five Pillars of Islam. In numerology 5 is the card of curiosity of the spiritual nature, but also that of imbalance and upset. Five is the number of humanity and a reminder that we all experience disillusionment at some point in our lives.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Black cloak – shrouded, surrounded by the need to mourn something
River- separation, a barrier
Bridge – the means of crossing that separation and returning to home
Spilled cups – past or present loss
Upright cups – There remains plenty of support and love
Fortress/dwelling – stability, happiness. In the Five of Cups it is across the river, a seeming barrier to achieving the sanctuary of home.

Herbs for The Five of Cups

Bee Balm – calms nervous system and uplifts the heart
Borage – Courage; lifts spirit and gladdens the heart
Hawthorn – protection and openness healer of heartache and grief
Linden – calming heart tonic; protective, comforting, through times of grief
Mimosa – Sadness, loss, heartache, grief. Can help when mourning the things you are letting go from your life.

Questions that the Five of Cups asks us

Are you grieving a situation that is not as you had hoped, and if so, are you neglecting to notice all the blessings that are still in abundance all around you?

Do you feel like you are coming out of a long period of introspection, and what lessons and visions are you bringing forth into this new reality?

That is the Five of Cups. Wishing you a week in which, as illusion falls away, the reality of blessings become clear. Thank you for reading, and as always, please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading. Please join me next week for the Six of Cups!

TAROT’S FOUR OF CUPS EMPHASIZES RESTLESSNESS AND NEED FOR CHANGE

July 19, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Four of Cups. Sitting alone in the shade of a lone tree at the top of a gentle hill, is a male figure gazing down as if in thought. Both arms and legs are crossed At his feet is a neat row of three cups. A hand emerges from a cloud, holding the fourth cup in offering to him. — Four of Cups

You must have a level of discontent to feel the urge to want to grow.
Idowu Koyenikan

Overview and common meanings of The Four of Cups

When The four of cups shows up, it is often to magnify restlessness and disenchantment, but it also reminds us that there is support for us and that others see our light even when we cannot. A time of reflection and meditation is called for. This can also herald a time of new opportunities appearing in your life, that you are allowing to pass without taking advantage of – whether because you are too busy, or just don’t have the energy.

This is a great time to tap into your inner knowing and identify what is truly important to you. It can also indicate a possessive sort of sentimentality – not wanting to let go of what we have, regardless of whether it brings us joy. It is a gentle suggestion to take the time to see the world around you and how much good there is in it. Some other names, in varying decks are soul searching, re-evaluation, abundance.

Common Meanings

In relationship readings, if you are seeking one, Four of Cups gently reminds us that oftentimes we need to do the work of healing past relationship trauma before we are truly able to open to another in a fulfilling relationship. If you are currently involved, it can indicate a time of boredom and emphasize the need to shake things up and inject some romance into your relationship. It also serves as a caution against staying in relationships out of habit.

In a reading regarding work and home, Four of Cups may highlight feelings of restlessness and dissatisfaction; the need to make a positive change. Often you will find that these are small shifts to change the narrative of your perspective and it will feel like new life being breathed into the situation.

The Many Faces of The Four of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal- of the Four of cups is much like the upright meaning, only magnified. It is a good time to really take stock of what you want in your life and what changes you need to implement to make that happen, and oftentimes the only way to accomplish this is through a time of retreat and introspection. Reversed, the crossed legs of the figure in the four of cups is reminiscent of the Hanged Man, and much like the hanged man holds the key to his own freedom, so, too, does the man in the four of cups. Dig deep and figure out how to release yourself from self-imposed bondage of boredom and dissatisfaction.

Description of the Four of Cups

Sitting alone in the shade of a lone tree at the top of a gentle hill, is a male figure gazing down as if in thought. Both arms and legs are crossed At his feet is a neat row of three cups. A hand emerges from a cloud, holding the fourth cup in offering to him.

Themes of The Four of Cups

Boredom
Detachment
Dissatisfaction
Introspection
Meditation
Reflection
Restlessness
Weariness

The Number 4

Four is the number of stability, practicality and pragmatism; efficiency and strength; conservative development. It denotes creativity, but the kind that builds a solid foundation. In association with cups, the suit of emotions and feelings, number four can also indicate inertia and stagnation.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Male with crossed legs and arms – dissatisfaction, focus on lack, but also introspection and meditation
Tree – life and strength
Hand emerging from cloud – symbolic of new beginnings and hope
Cups – emotions, that which we feel and have.

Herbs for The Four of Cups

Ashwagandha – calms the mind and lowers cortisol levels. Helps with mental fatigue, stress, and exhaustion
Chamomile – gentle relaxant and nerve restorative for exhaustion
Licorice root – supports adrenals, which helps manage stress
Lemon Balm – calming and promoting trust, psychic/spiritual development.
Peony – for becoming receptive, opening to your spiritual gifts and intuition

Questions that the Four of Cups asks us

Are you so focused on what is imperfect in your life that you are missing out on the good?
How can you take advantage of this time of introspection and growth so that you emerge from this chrysalis as a glorious butterfly?

That is the Four of Cups. If you have been feeling the need for change and growth, wishing you a week in which you find time to tap into your intuition and vision for your own highest and best good. As always, please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading if you feel so called. Thank you for reading and please join me next week for the Five of Cards!

TAROT’S THREE OF CUPS: THE BEST TIMES WITH THE BEST PEOPLE

July 12, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Three of Cups. Three barefoot female figures wearing wreaths on their heads, raise their cups in celebration. They appear to be dancing in joy and camaraderie. Two hold the cups in their right hand, which is the hand of giving, and the third in her left, the hand of receiving, indicating that they the balance in both giving and receiving. One is wearing red robes, one yellow, and one white. One holds a cluster of grapes in the hand that is not toasting. Scattered on the ground around them are flowers, pumpkins, clusters of grapes and apples -the signs of an abundant harvest. — Three of Cups

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom
Marcel Proust

Overview and common meanings of The Three of Cups

The Three of Cups is a time of celebration and plenty, of carefree simple fun. This can be a season of parties, weddings, or just gatherings with the people in your life that you enjoy. A great time to be around people with high vibrations and energy levels and raise your own in the process. There can even be a bit of light flirtation in the energy.

Some alternate names from varying decks are Playfulness, bliss, fullness, corn dance.

Common Meanings

In work readings, the three of cups indicates a harmonious team effort at work, where creativity is flowing. If you are seeking work, the camaraderie aspect of this card reminds us to tap into our social and personal networks. In love, it is a great time to just enjoy where you are, whether that is single and having fun, or in a flirty new relationship. If you are in an established relationship, this card brings back some of the playful lightness of your relationship. Sometimes the three of cups can indicate a relationship that contains three people – be it a family unit, three close friends, or in non-traditional relationships that don’t just contain a couple.

The Many Faces of the Three of Cups

The Shadow side – or reversal – of the Three of cups can indicate carelessness and shallowness. Sometimes this looks like a flirtation gone too far, an affair, or overindulgence in unhealthy things. It can also indicate a creative blockage and remind us to take some time to find our balance again before delving back into the creative process. Sometimes it is simply the need to spend some time alone recharging our batteries and visioning what kind of relationships we want in our life.

Description of the three of cups

Three barefoot female figures wearing wreaths on their heads, raise their cups in celebration. They appear to be dancing in joy and camaraderie. Two hold the cups in their right hand, which is the hand of giving, and the third in her left, the hand of receiving, indicating that they the balance in both giving and receiving. One is wearing red robes, one yellow, and one white. One holds a cluster of grapes in the hand that is not toasting. Scattered on the ground around them are flowers, pumpkins, clusters of grapes and apples -the signs of an abundant harvest.

Themes of The Three of Cups

Abundance
Balance
Celebration
Creative collaboration
Family
Flirtation
Friendship
Playfulness
Reunion
Vitality

The Number Three

Three is the number of creative expression. Following the number two, of partnerships, the number three brings a third element – the birth of a child or a creative enterprise. It is is tied to the cycles and seasons in life, understanding, and growth, mother, maiden, crone.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Cups – the cups, which are about emotions, are raised in a toast to companionship and good company
Dancing- celebrations in life
Hands that hold the cups – the right hand is the hand of giving, and the left, receiving, indicating that the best relationships in life are those in which we can do both.
Harvest of abundance – celebrations in life and reaping the harvests of friendship and success
Robes – red hearkens to justice, yellow and white to temperance, and white to strength
Wreaths – traditionally worn for celebrations of all kinds; another indication of the joys found in companionship

Herbs for The Three of Cups

Azalea – Enjoyment, merriment, lightness in love and friendships
Calla Lilies -genuine friendship, heartfelt admiration, and respect
Hops – mirth and joy
Iris – rejuvenation and transformation, companionship, trust, and faith.
Vervain – Protection, peace, healing, good fortune

Questions that the Three of Cups asks us

When was the last time you connected with the people who fill your cup of joy, inspiration, and peace?
How can you bring a feeling of unity and celebration to your everyday life?

That is the Three of cups: overflowing with the abundance of heart connections. Wishing you a week of celebration and opportunities to dance just for the joy of it. Please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading if you are feeling called to that. Thank you for reading and please join me next week for the Four of Cups!

Joy and Blessings;

Tara

TAROT’S TWO OF CUPS IS ALL ABOUT POWERFUL PARTNERSHIPS

July 6, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

The Two of Cups: Two figures, a male and a female. The female wears long white robes with a blue mantle, reminiscent of the High Priestess, with a laurel wreath on her head. The male wears a tunic, leggings, and boots, colored and reminiscent of the fool, and is crowned with a floral wreath. They each hold out a golden vessel to the other, from which a caduceus – a symbol of healing – rises. The male is also extending a hand to the female. Overlooking all is a red lion’s head sprouting wings. In the distant background we see the red roof of a house that is surrounded by trees and perched on a gentle slope. — Two of Cups

Together, we form a necessary paradox; not a senseless contradiction.
Criss Jami

Overview and Common Meanings of the Two of Cups

The Mutual love and respect between two people create magic when the two of cups show up. The two of cups is about the connection found in those true partnerships, whether they be deep and romantic, life-long friendships, or even business.

Common Meanings

This is a true meeting of the minds of two people who enhance, inspire, and bring out the best in each other. Not only are these people supportive of one another, but there is also a great deal of mutual respect, which all the best true partnerships have. These are those connections in life that are precious and rare. Celebrate and revel in these special relationships.

The Many Faces of The Two of Cups

The shadow side – or reversal of the Two of Cups can indicate relationship stress, that things are not all as they seem. Sometimes in an established relationship, this is a sign of life interrupting your relationship and putting the love and passion on the back burner for now while more immediate concerns are being addressed. Can sometimes indicate that you are no longer a good fit in your current relationship and that it has run its course. The shadow side of the Two of Cups is also a call to work on self-love, for you will never be fully able to love another without first loving yourself. This can be a sign of emotional blocks, being closed off and unable to receive love, past trauma impacting present, and separation.

Description of the Two of Cups

Standing in front of a backdrop of blue sky that covers 4/5ths of the card, are two figures. The female wears long white robes with a blue mantle, reminiscent of the High Priestess, with a laurel wreath on her head. The male wears a tunic, leggings, and boots, colored and reminiscent of the fool, and is crowned with a floral wreath. They each hold out a golden vessel to the other, from which a caduceus – a symbol of healing – rises. The male is also extending a hand to the female. Overlooking all is a red lion’s head sprouting wings. In the distant background we see the red roof of a house that is surrounded by trees and perched on a gentle slope.

Themes of The Two of Cups

Love
Desire
Companionship
Partnerships
Empathy
Alliance
Harmony
Sexual relations
Consecration by nature

The Number 2

The number two is feminine and, as such, presents duality: representing both grace and power; Yin/Yang, Male/female, Light/Dark, Action/Meditation, as well as significant relationships and partnerships. This number is representative of the dichotomy of true wisdom.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Caduceus – ancient emblem of commerce, barter, and healing
Cups – emotions
Garlands – Laurel or olive, and flowers – together signify success and love
Home – harmony in domestic situations
Man – in colors reminiscent of the fool indicating new beginnings and leaps of faith
Woman in white and blue robes – blue for truth, white for purity and connection to subconscious
Winged lion head – passionate, fiery, sexual energy

Herbs for The Two of Cups

Cinnamon – love, power, and positivism; the strength of love
Lavender – love, devotion, purity – the innocent state of the soul
Orange Blossom – The Orange Tree symbolizes Innocence, Purity, Fertility, and Lasting Love.
saffron – encourage sexuality and boost fruitfulness
Spearmint, love, healing, and insight

Questions that the Two of Cups asks us

If you were to have a heartfelt conversation with someone who you like, admire, and respect, what would it tell you about yourself?
Are you giving and receiving the appropriate energy and effort in the relationships in your life that are important?

That is the Two of Cups, harbinger of deep partnerships. Wishing you a week in which you drop into these experiences how ever they show up for you in your life and take a moment to feel gratitude for them. Thank you for reading, and as always, please reach out with questions, comments, or to schedule a reading. Please join me next week for the Three of Cups!

Blessings;

Tara

THE ACE OF CUPS OF THE TAROT: EUPHORIC BEGINNINGS IN LIFE AND LOVE

June 28, 2022 / Tara Mallane / 0 Comments

Tarot cards - The Ace of Cups
a large hand is open with a golden chalice bearing an inverted M resting in the palm. From the chalice, 5 streams of water flow down to a pond on which waterlilies float. There are water droplets all around and below the chalice. Above the chalice is a dove, facing or flying downwards into the chalice, holding within its beak a cross within a circle, or a wafer that is imprinted with the cross and circle. — The Ace of Cups

Overview and common meanings of The Ace of Cups in Tarot

When the Ace of Cups shows up, divine love and empathy flow through you. The Ace of Cups is about beginnings and love. Alternate names in varying decks: Happiness, abundance.

Begin today. Declare out loud to the universe that you are willing to let go of struggle and eager to learn through joy
Sarah Ban Breathnach

Common Meanings

The Ace of cups can indicate that a love connection – whether it be a romantic connection or that of a parent and child, takes priority above work, finances, and projects. It is also the card of “good vibes,” in friendships and camaraderie and love. A card of new beginnings, The Ace of Cups is “pregnant with possibilities, and can sometimes denote an actual pregnancy.

The Many Faces of The Ace of Cups

The reversal, or shadow side, of the Ace of cups demonstrates self-love and reminds us that before we can love others, we first need to love ourselves. Reversal can indicate fertility issues, blockages in creativity, insecurity, doubt and feeling unable to trust the people you should be trusting. The shadow side can also indicate feeling emotionally drained due to the need to care for another. It can be a sign of being attacked by emotional vampirism. It is also a time to trust these insecurities and look beyond what you want to see, to what is. A reversal in a love reading about a new relationship can also be a warning that this is not what you wish it to be. Dependence, jealousy, avarice, or bewilderment.

Description of the Ace of Cups

Emerging from clouds, a large hand is open with a golden chalice bearing an inverted M resting in the palm. From the chalice, 5 streams of water flow down to a pond on which waterlilies float. There are water droplets all around and below the chalice. Above the chalice is a dove, facing or flying downwards into the chalice, holding within its beak a wafer that is imprinted with the cross and circle.

Themes of The Ace of Cups

Artistic
Beginnings
Compassion
Creativity
Emotional
Feminine
Growth
Love
New Relationships
Water

Aces

Aces, as number 1’s, in every suit always offer an invitation to risk, to begin, to say yes. They are the beginning of a new cycle. In the suit of cups, you are saying yes to a bigger and better life, joy, relationship. Aces bring the natural vitality of their suits. They are aligned with the divine and represent beginnings instincts, and new opportunities.

Elements of the Card and Associated Symbolism

Hand – understanding and realization of spiritual force
Chalice- subconscious mind
Dove- divine love flowing through subconscious to conscious
5 Streams of water- the five senses (sight, smell, hearing, taste, and touch) flowing from the subconscious mind
Pond with waterlilies – the awakening of the human spirit
W or Inverted M – The ambiguity of water, mercurial and changing, subconscious.

Herbs for The Ace of Cups

Caraway – incites passion while providing protection, helps establish loving bond
Cinquefoil – Balance; The five points of the leaf represent love, money, health, power, and wisdom
Daisy- abundance, joy, happiness, transformation
Damiana – stimulates a healthy libido; enables us to be more open, and connected within ourselves and with others
Pine – rebirth, wisdom

Questions that the Ace of Cups asks us

Is there new relationship energy around you right now – be it romantic, or even friendships, and if so, how can you honor that energy?
How can you focus more on self-care and self-love in your day-to-day life?

That is the Ace of Cups, fresh and shiny with euphoric new beginnings. Wishing you a week of basking in the beauty that new brings to your life. Please leave comments, ask questions, or reach out for a reading. Thank you for reading and please join me next week for the 2 of Cups.